Step 1: Center Yourself (2 Minutes)
- Take 10 deep breaths.
- Clear all immediate tasks from your mind.
- Remind yourself: This is not about productivity. This is about alignment.
Step 2: Quick Wins Reflection (5 Minutes)
Ask:
- “What am I proud of from the past 90 days?”
- “Where have I made invisible progress that I haven’t fully celebrated?”
(Write 3-5 bullet points.)
Step 3: Current State Check (5 Minutes)
Ask:
- “What parts of my work energize me the most right now?”
- “What parts feel heavy, draining, or disconnected?”
- “Is anything I’m doing starting to feel like an old chapter I’m clinging to?”
(Write honest, no-filter answers.)
Step 4: Future Feelings Vision (10 Minutes)
Ask:
- “If success could FEEL any way I want in the next 6–12 months, what would it feel like?”
- (Examples: Expansive? Calm? Exciting? Freeing? Joyful? Fierce?)
Then ask:
- “What kinds of projects, clients, or creations would match that feeling best?”
- “What kinds would kill that feeling, even if they’re profitable?”
(Sketch 2 simple lists: Matches / Conflicts.)
Step 5: Small Strategic Shifts (5 Minutes)
Ask:
- “What is one small shift I can make in the next 30 days to move closer to the future feeling I want?”
- “What should I prune, pause, or protect to make that happen?”
(Commit to 1-2 clear action steps.)
Step 6: Closing Affirmation (Optional)
“I have permission to evolve. Growth requires new maps, not just stronger engines.”
(Say it out loud if you want. Reinforces internal permission.)
Usage Notes:
- Do this check-in every 90 days.
- Keep it casual, honest, non-performative.
- The goal is not to criticize your past work — it’s to honor where you are and consciously chart where you want to go.
Remember:
“Alignment beats hustle. Legacy beats momentum. Fulfillment beats achievement.”